Make A Happy Home
Join Dustin and Sarah Lolli as they explore why the things that are supposed to bring happiness…don’t. How do you maintain happiness and contentment when life is hard. This podcast is not meant to give you all the answers. But it is meant to attempt to ask the right questions. Let’s talk!
Make A Happy Home
Great Expectations
In episode three of the Make a Happy Home Podcast we're talking expectations, y'all!
We share some personal stories about how expectations have played out in our lives. How it hurt our happiness and contentment - whether it's expectations of others or ourselves.
We're also looking at the importance of being honest with ourselves. How stepping back to see situations from different perspectives can change them - and us - and ultimately lead to freedom from expectations.
We hope this conversation helps you navigate your own relationships with less pressure, more openness, and, of course, more happiness!
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Sections:
04:16 The Search For A Stable Baseline In Life
05:44 Love For A Classic Christmas Movie With A Muppet Twist
00:08:08 Embracing Freedom Through Unconditional Acceptance
00:12:47 Carrying The Weight Of Expectations In Real Life Relationships
00:16:23 The Difficulty Of Defining Happiness As An Idea
00:18:13 The Challenges Of Marriage: Learning And Reflection In Difficult Seasons
00:19:05 The Power Of Drawing Strength From Difficulties In Relationships
00:23:37 Parenting Expectations Vs. Reality: Same Genetics, Different Kids
00:24:44 Adjusting Expectations In Life: A Candid Conversation
00:27:54 Every Child Is Different: Avoid Preconceived Expectations
00:29:35 The Dangers Of Comparison And The Importance Of Building Independence In Children
00:31:52 Appreciating Differences In Children: A Personal Reflection.
00:35:43 The Importance Of Letting Go Of Expectations And Finding Freedom For Ourselves And Others.
00:41:45 Nuanced Approach To Dealing With Toxic People In Life
Key Takeaways:
The podcast discusses the importance of avoiding comparisons between children and instead focusing on teaching them to be independent and have expectations for themselves. It emphasizes the need to choose to listen and control one's own response, rather than trying to control others. The hosts acknowledge that every situation is different and there are no easy answers.
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